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BAB Fashion Show - Model Selection

2009-10-27T16:14:00.002+08:00

Big & Beautiful - Online Shopping For Plus Size Women

They have confirmed their 16 models selection out of 56

responses..
I'm so excited,
1) Its Singapore's First Plus-Size Runway Fashion Show!!
2) This is my first Experience!!
3) Its Hosted by BAB!!!

There are the models, do give all of us your support :

Plus size modeling - BAB

2009-10-21T23:10:00.000+08:00

BIG n BEAUTIFUL

Plus size ladies I have discovered this beautiful webby that celebrates women who are big!!! There are so proud to be Big!!

You guys remember I post a blog about me wanting to be a plus size model?? Guess what!

I FINALLY GOT MY CHANCE!!

All thanks to BAB!!

Yes! Finally, a plus size fashion show for all B.A.B. Girls out there! It’s about time for us to step it up and say “Hey!”. I have a dream, a dream to have plus size fashion in main stream media. We are currently in the midst of finalising the details for the event so do bear with us for a while more. This event will be a ticketed event and we can only accomodate 150pax.

The Fashion Show name…
“Grand et Beau” means Big and Beautiful in French. Since we are featuring corsets and more haute couture gowns and dresses for this fashion show, why not let’s give it a french name!

The Fashion Show will feature…
* Plus Size Wedding Gowns
* Plus Size Evening Gowns
* Plus Size Corsets
* Plus Size Beach Wear
* Plus Size Casual Dresses

Event details and ticket sales will start end October 2009.

Go to http://bab.com.sg/events/fashion-show for more details. - By BAB

:... because slim was so last year!"

COOL!!

The need 15 models for the show.. I took this as a great opportunity.. I could never get this chance again right.. Haha..

I GOT SELETED!!! I have been waiting for their E-mail..

Finally when I got their E-,ail I was hoping around my house!! LOL

Out of 52 whosigned up, I was one of the luck ones to get in!!

They even have BEACHWEARS!!!
- Bikins
-Tankinis
-Pareo Wraps
-Cover up Tops

I wanna get my hands on some of them!!

Goods Return / Exchange

All good(s) sold are non-refundable, unless due to manufacturing / tailoring defects.
“NO-FIT” Exchange Policy – should the good(s) be unable to fit due to size or manufacturer’s defects, you may send it back to us for exchange for another size within 7 days.

I will Update on the event.. Expect more pictures!!! More News!! Hahah!! Wish me luck people!!

Deepavali Shopping

2009-10-08T01:09:00.004+08:00

GETTING READY FOR DEEPAVALI

Deepavali is just around the corner.. Nothing has been done.. Seriously Nothing.. NO Cookies/Biskets

NO new Clothes NO new Deco.. NOTHING!!!

So MUM, 1st Sis, Sweetha, Praveen & myself headed down to Little India.. First thing first, the moment we reached there we had to eat, hungry..

Chicken Murtabak

Indian Rojak

After having our stomach filled with food.. We started to go shopping... =)

Things in avaiable for Shopping.. Filled with Colours.. Beautiful...

DECO

Fire Crakers

Lighted Flowers

Beautiful Candles & Candle Holders

Pretty Little Containers

Spolied for choices for Greeting Cards

There were even Media Coverage

Colourful Shore Wears

MORE Deco

More Food

Mouth watering Sweets

MORE MORE Deco

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Nice!!

Bangles

Countless amounts of Deco..

Took my breath away...

Yummy Treats

Simply I look Crazy.. Was trying to disturb Praveen while he was trying to take a Macho post..

End the day watching the 2009 Deepavali Lighting

Hope you'll go visit Little India Soon!!
Great deals, that should not be missed... Many items going off selves..

Even if you not buying anything.. just head down to Little India to have a feel what is Deepavali is about.

Abusive Relationship - Women Must Stand Up!

2009-10-05T16:09:00.004+08:00

L.O.V.E

What is a healthy relationship?

As social beings, humans thrive on meaningful relationships that make life more fulfilling and purposeful. Healthy relationship is based on premises such as respect, trust, honesty, accountability and shared responsibility. People in positive relationships are generally affirming and supportive and show non-intimidating behavior towards one another even during challenging times. There are however, instances where intense feelings of care and concern transcend natural affection and abuses can take place.

What is an abusive relationship?

Abuses can take physical, verbal, emotional and even sexual forms. It can happen in any setting and relationship. A few possible signs that a person is being abused include unexplained bruises, bite marks, cuts and wounds on the body, or that the person is showing a deep sense of guilt or fear without cause. However, not all abuses are obvious and blatant as some can be subtle. It may not be easy to detect abuses as they could be under the guises of love and affection. As such, it is important that you recognize the tell-tale signs that you are being abused and seek professional help.

Possible signs of warning

· The person frequently belittles you or makes you feel unworthy

· Controls your time and movement or limits your choices excessively

· Constantly gets jealous or angry and accuses you of not spending time with him/ her

· Deliberately distorts the facts and assigns blame to you

· Makes sexual advances or suggestions that you are uncomfortable with

· Discourages contacts with family and friends or isolating you from others

· Constantly makes you feel guilty for things you have not done or had done

· Threaten to self-harm or harm you if the person does not get what he/ she wants

Why seeking help is important

Abuses tend to get worse over time as the abusers get bolder and more controlling. The abusers may progress from subtle to overt harm and hurt. Constant barrage of threats, humiliation, or controlling behaviours are also mistreatments that some people face in an abusive relationship. It may eventually erode a person’s sense of self-worth and identity to a point that he or feels helpless and loses confidence in himself or herself. This is detrimental to the person’s quality of life and functional independence.

How you can help yourself

The first step towards freedom from abusive relationships is to recognise that you deserve to be treated with respect and not allow yourself to be subject to abuse of any kind.

Be aware of the warning signs and distinguish between affection and abuse. Realise that love does not involve inflicting pain, fear or guilt on others.

Seek immediate medical attention if you are assaulted so as to protect yourself from further harm and hurt. If the person touches any part of your body in a way that makes you uncomfortable, you should also confide in a member of the family or a close friend.

Have a social network of friends so that you have people to turn to for help at any time. They can also help to identify if you have been abused and provide support. It is important to avoid isolating yourself, especially if you are involved in an abusive relationship.

The person who abuses you needs help as well. It is likely that the abuser had also been victimised in the past but did not receive proper help and guidance. However, if the person refuses to seek professional help or change his or her abusive behaviour, it is prudent to make a decision to end the relationship. This may be painful but necessary for your personal well-being and safety.

Seek a safe haven and develop a support system after you leave the abuser so that you will not be alone. Sometimes abusers may be enraged when they have lost a sense of control over their victim. The support system may include community resources such as crisis hotlines, family service centres, professional counselling services or medical care. It is good to have these numbers readily at hand.

Seeking professional counselling for abusive relationships is preferred over talking to family or friends. Trained mental health professionals are better equipped to help identify areas of concern and develop coping strategies.

Useful Hotlines:

· Samaritans of Singapore (SOS): 1800 221 4444

· Singapore Association for Mental Health (SAMH): 1800 283 7019

· Family Service Centre (FSC): 1800 838 0100

· Touchline: 1800 377 2252

STOP VIOLENCE ON WOMEN!

I SINCERELY HOPE THAT ALL ABUSIVE MEN SHOULD HURT THEMSELVES IN EXTREME WAYS!! DIE YOU S.O.B & YOU SHALL ROT IN HELL!! NO MEN IS A MEN IF HE ABUSES A WOMEN!! NO WOMEN NEEDS TO BE TREATED LIKE DUST!! WOMEN PLEASE WAKE UP!!

Source : ntu.edu.sg

Dealing with Death

2009-10-03T11:25:00.002+08:00

D.E.A.T.H

Dealing with Death - Experienced By Everyone
Dealing with death is a life experience that no one wants to face. Life can often seem like swimming in the ocean during high tide. Even if we know how to swim and jump over the big waves at just the right time, when we least expect it-wham! We are broadsided, and find ourselves spinning and bouncing off the bottom of the ocean with a mouth full of sand. If we fight, it takes longer to get to the surface. But if we float with the current, we come right to the top. Floating when we are frightened is difficult. It takes trust and concentration. Dealing with the death of a loved one is similar. In order to cope, it takes trust.

Death is nearly always accompanied by questions - especially "why." Whether we are facing our own death, or the death of someone we love, we want answers. Why is this happening? What did I do to deserve this? Is there life after death? The sooner we learn to float - to trust - the easier it is to discover the answers we are seeking.

Dealing with Death - The True Position
When dealing with death, the solution is the same whether the death is our own or that of a loved one. As hard as it is to accept, we must understand that death is a part of life. As some have quipped, death is the only thing in life that comes with a 100% guarantee.

It is helpful to realized that while our bodies are mortal, all human beings are eternal - our soul and spirit will never die. Our spirits - the essence of who we are - will live forever!

God desires for us to spend eternity with Him, yet He has left that choice up to us. God has made all the provisions for us to be with Him forever.He has no greater love than

His love for us

Source : http://www.allaboutlifechallenges.org/dealing-with-death.htm

This blog post is dedicated to a friend who lost her loved one...

Saturday Movie Night - Drag Me To Hell (26/09/09)

2009-09-29T13:40:00.001+08:00

While watching Tv, I received a SMS from my Cousin brother that my 2nd sister and I are invited to his house to watch a Horror movie - Drag Me To Hell

Christine Brown has a good job, a great boyfriend, and a bright future. But in three days, she's going to hell.

I was really thinking the movie was gonna be very scary and I wouldn't be able to sleep at night. Sighs.. I would say 1/4 had shocking scenes, other 1/4 had totally disgusting scenes ( the old women) & the other 1/2 of the movie was more or like cartoon.. I dare say her action was not so natural.

I expected better.

My movie Rating is : 4/10

But we did eat n drink our hearts out.. lol

Microwave Popcorn - Step 1

Step 2

Step 3

PS : A little was burn thanks to someone!

We had also :

F&N Ice Cream Soda - Missed that yummy taste

Tuna Sandwich

Tidbits

Moral of the story even if the movie sucked, the right movie foods will cheer you up! Mine sure did!

Plus Size Modeling

2009-09-29T00:18:00.003+08:00

Since from the age of 7, I always have been on the plus size. So I never thought of being a model when I was in my Teens.. But I loved to watch Models.. The walk they walk, The Turns they do, The proudness they have on their faces. But Me being like them.. Nah... Nope I always Loved Tyra Banks!!

She is such a BEAUTY

But sometime back, I came across something called " PLUS SIZE MODELING" . I was so happy that there are women who do plus size modeling but, sadly in Singapore there is no market compared to US and UK.But if there ever is, I would love to join.

She's Pretty

She looks hot

Plus size women are Sexy too

I'm not saying that if your plus sized, that you should always be one.. But being healthy is also good. Exercise regularly

You would feel healthy and feel sexy too.

So what do you think? Shall I try for plus size Modeling or not?

Kamala and myself

ADV : Movie Recommendation : Surrogates - Bruces Willis

2009-09-25T14:01:00.001+08:00

Have you ever wonder what the world will be like in 8 or 9 years time? What you will be doing? Will you be married? Having kids? A new job? Who knows even a multi millionaire?

Aww.. I really wonder what will it be like.. Or how about, future in which humans live in near-total isolation, never leaving the safety and comfort of their homes, and only communicating with their fellow man through remotely-controlled robotic bodies that serve as "Surrogates," designed as better-looking versions of their human operators. Because people are safe all the time, and damage done to a surrogate is not even felt by its owner, it is a peaceful world free from fear, pain, and crime.

Sounds interesting huh??

But after watching the Trailer of The Movie Surrogates ... Wow was I blown away..

'The Surrogates' Trailer HD

Things you should know about the movie :

1st : Bruce Willis is acting..

2nd : Directed by Jonathan Mostow who also directed The movie terminator 3 : Rise of the Machines (2003)

3rd : Go to their Official website to create your own Surrogates..

I wanted my own Surrogates and I created mine... Check it Out ..

Haha.. I would get my Surrogate to go and do modelling .. haha.. I never had my chance to do.. So let my Surrogate do it, Since I get to control.. Since I'll see what my Surrogate sees, Feel what my Surrogate feels and my Surrogate become anyone I want to be.. My Surrogate will be a Big Super Star in the red Carpets. Hahaha.. Even if there is the BEST SURROGATES AWARD I'll make sure my surrogates get it... hehe..

*Starts dreaming of the fame & fortune she will have.. Big Houses.. A Sports cars, all the fashion labels... Etc..Etc...

But there is a twist to the movie... Watch the movie to find out..

Anyone wanna follow me to watch this movie??

HOW DO SAVE HUMANITY WHEN THE ONLY THING THAT'S REAL IS YOU?
Catch Surrogates in cinemas on 1st Oct 09

Funny & cute Clips

2009-09-25T13:13:00.000+08:00

Have you ever thought of MJ our king of POP to be in our very fav video game?

Super Mario Game!!

Its funny..

This is my neice Ashleen, We call her Aishu.. See her taking our Singapore Pledge..

(wid some word gere and ther missing)

Very Cute..

Enjoy!!

Exercise

2009-09-23T23:07:00.000+08:00

Im HAPPY!! Im glad with the way my Blog looks like.. It kinda really reflex me.. ;)
(That is a Happy looking animal not me)

Recently I have been exercising.. YES you heard me right.. EXERCISING.. I have been feeling very unhealthy ever since I was hospitalized for Blood transfuction. Plus I got chicken Pox, thanks to my niece. last but not least to loss that weight I have been carrying on.All this thanks to jayshree who is always with me when I am doing my workout.She motivates me. I owe you 1 gal for this. Thanks alot.

Its time to get fit!! I have been doing :

Going to the gym

Going jogging

Going swimming

I am feeling very proud of myself that I am doing this. I also hope to make others around me proud to. and of course thanks the Jayshree once again for being proud of me. These words are a form of encouragement for me. I want those around me to encourage me.

guess what I enjoy Exercising.. Oh my god, I never thought I would say this but, I really am Enjoying it. I also like to welcome anyone to join me and my buddy jayshree on our workouts.

Once again, Thanks.. I have never been these proud of myself for trying....

Getting started again..

2009-09-23T16:10:00.000+08:00

After months of whining about not updating my blog, I decided to create a new blog.. No i am not gonna draw in my current blog.. Sadly.. But if I could I would be more then happy to upload my drawing.. But, I will try..

Nothing to blog about for now.. Trying to get use to Blogger..

Will Post a new blog soon..